Chances are good that your loved one wants to remain at home as long as possible. I know I do. And let’s be honest about that – it’s not an easy promise to keep. In fact, it isn’t always possible to do that. But it can be more possible when you hire a caregiver to work in the home.
When that is possible, you want assurance that the person you hire to provide helping hands is going to be reliable and trustworthy.
Check out these AARP tips for hiring an in-home provider.
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Every human life comes to a close. Intellectually, we all know that. At that level, it’s just a fact. Death happens.
We’ll all end up as a little piece of history. That doesn’t take on any real meaning until we’ve actually bumped up against it. Even then, it can be pretty tough to open ourselves to the inevitable.
We can’t point to a place in history to exclaim, “See? Here’s one. No Death!”
It seems that some aspects of opening up to our mortality just naturally want to be placed on hold. Recognizing that someone we love or care for is nearing death remains at serious odds with other complex emotions. It’s awfully hard to imagine, “What if this is it?” We naturally want to hold hope that this isn’t “it.”
What isn’t hard to imagine is how you can be supported through that.
Whether a family caregiver, a friend, or someone supporting a family, knowing how to serve in that capacity goes a long way to reduce anxiety. Recently, Lincoln Home offered community education on Sharing the Care. It’s an amazing way to build a team of supporters in a short period of time. Whether for a pending death or to help someone through a rough patch with their health and recovery, having proficient skills in basic care-giving can be a saving grace.
It’s inevitable. When you’re called upon to provide care for someone who means a lot to you, a care-provider class will give you valuable skills and confidence.
Believe it or not, this is an important piece for connecting with your loved-one and healing loss. Check out the Funeral Consumers Alliance of Maine for information on after-death care and making home funeral arrangements.